Instead of the country agreeing with her community on the natural rightness of heterosexual marriage as the center of family life, she was now obliged to defend herself against the idea that these views were sexist, homophobic, old-fashioned, and backward.

Arlie Russell Hochschild
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This quote is about how people who hold conservative views are often forced to defend these views even though they are not sexist or homophobic or old-fashioned or backward. Instead, they are simply speaking what they believe to be the truth. The gay community has forced their views on the entire nation and now everyone is forced to live under their laws.

Source: Strangers In Their Own Land: Anger And Mourning On The American Right

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